Bob Poe
Dad, Husband, Author, Entrepreneur
Introduction
I'm Bob Poe—a dad first, everything else second.When my twin boys Evan and Ethan were diagnosed with autism at age three, I didn't have a roadmap. I didn't have a guide. I had questions, fear, and a desperate need for answers.So I learned. I fought. I advocated. I grew.And I wrote it all down.
Author
"We All Have Holes in Our Walls" is the book I wrote from the trenches of special needs parenting—not from theory, not from textbooks, but from real life. From sleepless nights and IEP meetings. From meltdowns in public and victories in private. From the moments when I didn't think I could go on, and the moments when my boys showed me I could.
What About Bob?
Bob is married to his wife Chrissy, and together they have three amazing kids:
Abbey (a journalism major, up and coming author, and big sister extraordinaire)
Evan and Ethan (twin sons who teach their family something new every day)
In his spare time, Bob enjoys paddleboarding and coaching Special Olympics—activities that have become integral to his sons' lives both economically and socially.
We All Have Holes in Our Walls
Embracing the Unseen: A Father's Guide to Understanding Special Needs
You're in a club most wouldn't choose to join.A club you didn't sign up for, didn't want, and never expected. The journey ahead will be challenging, exhausting, and will change your life in ways you can't yet imagine. Some days you'll feel frustrated, helpless, overwhelmed. And that's completely normal.What You'll Find Inside
This isn't just my story—it's a practical guide built from hard-won experience and the wisdom of those who've walked this path alongside me.Real Strategies for Real Challenges:
>Navigating the education system and IEP meetings
>Managing finances, insurance, and long-term planning
>Becoming an effective advocate for your child
>Building support networks when isolation feels overwhelming
>Preparing for emergencies and transitions to adulthood
>Taking care of yourself so you can take care of your familyMultiple Perspectives:
You'll hear not just from me, but from the people who've lived this journey alongside our family:Abbey Poe (my daughter) shares what it's like growing up as a sibling to brothers with special needs
Jake Boals (co-author) offers insights on friendship, advocacy, and showing up!
Stephanie Franklin (co-author) provides a community perspective on inclusion and support
Speaking and Workshops
Bob and the team are available for:>Speaking engagements
>Workshops for special needs families in the insurance financial planning
>Corporate inclusion training
>Podcast interviews
>Panel discussions